I will give MJ credit for his music talents but I am sorry if I can not mourn his death. See I have seen in person the ugly affect that child molestation can cause. I have held a little one in my arms as they have cried telling me what happened to them over and over again. It is something that no person should ever have to deal with. So as everyone says that we should overlook his past indiscretions I ask you have you ever had to deal with it? Can you look into the face of the children he has hurt and say that? Walk in their shoes.

I am sure that if I looked hard enough I could find good in a lot of ppl that cause harm to children but I'm sorry when I say I can not look past the harm that the wicked have caused on the kids. So no I will not look past discretion's instead I choose to be the voice of those who can not talk.

So as I do respect others in having the right to mourn the way they feel fit I would ask that they also respect those who choose not to. If MJ's music brought back wonderful childhood memories for you they I am happy for you for that. I think you should hang on to those memories. For some those memories are not happy.

I will leave you with a picture that the little girl (who is in her late teens now) had posted on her myspace. She was the little girl who I held, conforted as she cried telling me her story.

So as you ask us to repect your rights to mourn (and I will) then we ask that you respect our rights not to mourn.