Why Men Obsess Over Sex
OMG I walked into the house after picking up the kids and I had the TV on (left it on because I was watching Dr Oz). Well Oprah was on and as a guest she had the one porn star Jenna Jameson. As I'm walking with my kids one lady was talking to her saying "thank you so much you taught me so much like how to give good oral sex"...WOAH! My kids were like what did she say - did she say oral sex?? What are you watching mom - haha. Needless to say I flipped the channel and now I'm in my den (which is my office in the house) and I have on my TV watching.
Anyone else watching????
I agree with pretty much everything you say, in theory. However its unrealistic to not look sometimes, lets face it, if you're sitting at a bar with your girl, and this hot looking hooters type of girl walks by you and is wagging her butt as she passes you by, are you telling me that you are not going to look?? 
I find it extremely hard to believe that no guy would look, it's a reflex, you just can't help it, some don't even know they're doing it. I'm willing to overlook it say in the instance mentioned here (hooters girl) but if I find that it's an all the time thing no matter where we are, then that's when it would become an issue for me.
Do I look at other guys? If I'm with someone that I am completely into then no I don't, a guy could walk by me naked and I wouldn't even notice, I only have eyes for that one that I'm with. If I'm with someone that's boring me to death, then maybe my eyes would wander, but if thats the case, then I shouldn't be out with Mr. Boring in the first place.
However its unrealistic to not look sometimes, lets face it, if you're sitting at a bar with your girl, and this hot looking hooters type of girl walks by you and is wagging her butt as she passes you by, are you telling me that you are not going to look?? I find it extremely hard to believe that no guy would look, it's a reflex, you just can't help it
you just answered my exact reaction with your second paragraph; when I've chosen a girl to be in a relationship with (I don't jump into relationships, so when I pick a girl to be in one with, it's for real) a young Pam Anderson could come up behind me and try to lick my ear, even if my sig other isn't around, I couldn't care less, I only have eyes for my girl. And I most definately would never eyeball any girl or even mention how hot I think some other girl is TO her or in front of her, I think that's just completely disrespectful to my sig other.
You must be one of a freakin kind DoGGy, I swear. How do you know if you're even looking or not? I know some guys do it and they aren't even aware of it. So are you telling me that your whole life not one girl you've been with in a public setting has ever said to you "OMG I can't believe you just checked out that girl" or something similar...
, not that I can remember, but possibly when I was like, 17 or something. So you can't tell when you're looking at something? I usually am able to tell when I'm looking at something. 
I can also always tell when I'm looking at a girl and thinking (or saying) "dammmmmnnnn", hehe.
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